Japanese - Politeness

Lesson 6 of 168

A friendly scene showing people using polite Japanese phrases like ちょっと待ってください (Chotto matte kudasai) at a cafe counter.

Goal: Simple polite requests and responses

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Welcome to Lesson 6 — let’s keep it polite and practical. In this short lesson you'll hear common polite phrases, practice them in small quizzes, and say them out loud.

Level A1: In this lesson you'll practice polite everyday phrases for asking permission, thanking someone, asking someone to wait, offering something, reassuring someone, and checking if a plan is okay. You'll use frames like "___てもいいですか? (___te mo ii desu ka?)" to ask permission and short replies such as "どうぞ (dōzo)" and "大丈夫です (daijōbu desu)". CEFR-aligned and focused on speaking, listening, and quick practice.

After this lesson you'll be able to:

  • Learn to make a polite request with ___てもいいですか? (___te mo ii desu ka?)
  • Thank someone for a specific action using ___、ありがとうございます。 (___, arigatō gozaimasu.)
  • Politely ask someone to wait: ちょっと待ってください (Chotto matte kudasai).
  • Offer or hand something with どうぞ (Dōzo) and reassure with 大丈夫です (Daijōbu desu).
  • Check if a plan is OK using それで大丈夫ですか? (Sore de daijōbu desu ka?)
Close-up of a smiling person offering a seat and saying どうぞ (Dōzo) in a polite, everyday setting.

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1. Reading + Listening Practice

Hear core phrases, repeat aloud.

___てもいいですか?

___te mo ii desu ka?

Can I ___, please?

Meaning: Can I ___, please?

When to use: Use when you want to ask permission to do something for yourself. Put a verb in the て (te) form before もいいですか? For example, 写真を撮ってもいいですか?

Tip: Beginners sometimes forget to use the て形 (te-form) and say the dictionary form instead; make sure it's verb-te + もいいですか?

写真を撮ってもいいですか?

Shashin o totte mo ii desu ka?

Can I take a photo?
窓を開けてもいいですか?

Mado o akete mo ii desu ka?

Can I open the window?

___、ありがとうございます。

___, arigatō gozaimasu.

Thanks for ___.

Meaning: Thanks for ___.

When to use: Use this to thank someone for a thing or an action. Put a noun or a short clause before 「、ありがとうございます。」 If someone did something for you, you can also say ~てくれて、ありがとうございます。

助けてくれて、ありがとうございます。

Tasukete kurete, arigatō gozaimasu.

Thank you for helping me.
プレゼント、ありがとうございます。

Purezento, arigatō gozaimasu.

Thanks for the present.

ちょっと待ってください。

Chotto matte kudasai.

Just a moment, please.

Meaning: Just a moment, please.

When to use: Say this when you need someone to wait briefly (at a counter, on the phone, etc.). It's polite and common in daily life.

すみません、ちょっと待ってください。

Sumimasen, chotto matte kudasai.

Excuse me, please wait a moment.
すぐに用意します。ちょっと待ってください。

Sugu ni yōi shimasu. Chotto matte kudasai.

I'll prepare it right away. Please wait a moment.

どうぞ

Dōzo.

Here you go.

Meaning: Here you go.

When to use: A short polite phrase for handing something over, offering a seat, or inviting someone to go first.

カギ、どうぞ

Kagi, dōzo.

Here is the key.
席があります。どうぞ。

Seki ga arimasu. Dōzo.

There is a seat. Please, here you go.

大丈夫です

Daijōbu desu.

Don't worry.

Meaning: Don’t worry.

When to use: Use this to reassure someone after a small mistake or apology. It can also mean 'I'm fine' depending on context.

Tip: Beginners sometimes use 大丈夫です too broadly; remember context — it can mean 'it's okay' or 'I'm fine.'

ごめんなさい。大丈夫です。

Gomen nasai. Daijōbu desu.

I'm sorry. It's okay.
転んでも、大丈夫です。

Koronde mo, daijōbu desu.

Even if you fall, it's okay.

それで大丈夫ですか?

Sore de daijōbu desu ka?

Is that okay?

Meaning: Is that okay?

When to use: Use this to check whether a plan, suggestion, or arrangement is acceptable to the other person. 'それで' refers to the idea you just mentioned.

Tip: Don't mix this with いいですか? without context — それで points back to the suggestion or plan just stated.

明日午後で会いましょう。それで大丈夫ですか?

Ashita gogo de aimashō. Sore de daijōbu desu ka?

Let's meet tomorrow afternoon. Is that okay?
これで終わりです。それで大丈夫ですか?

Kore de owari desu. Sore de daijōbu desu ka?

This is the end. Is that okay?

2. Conversational Listening Practice

Hear phrases in a real mini-conversation.

Asking permission and confirming

Two people politely talking: one asks 「写真を撮ってもいいですか?」 (Shashin o totte mo ii desu ka?) and the other replies kindly.

What does Anna ask permission to do?

Portrait of Anna in a Japanese lesson dialogue

Anna

すみません、写真を撮ってもいいですか?

Sumimasen, shashin o totte mo ii desu ka?

Excuse me, can I take a photo?

Portrait of David in a Japanese lesson dialogue

David

どうぞ

Dōzo.

Here you go.

Portrait of Anna in a Japanese lesson dialogue

Anna

ありがとうございます。

Arigatō gozaimasu.

Thank you.

Portrait of David in a Japanese lesson dialogue

David

ちょっと待ってください。

Chotto matte kudasai.

Please wait a moment.

Portrait of Anna in a Japanese lesson dialogue

Anna

それで大丈夫ですか?

Sore de daijōbu desu ka?

Is that okay?

Portrait of David in a Japanese lesson dialogue

David

大丈夫です

Daijōbu desu.

It's fine.

3. Guided Practice

Quizzes and matching to lock in meaning.

How do you politely ask "Can I open the window?"

Which phrase best means "Here you go" when handing someone something?

Someone apologizes for bumping into you. Which reply is most natural to reassure them?

You propose a plan and want to check if it's acceptable. Which phrase do you use?

I want to take flower photos in the park. I ask my friend, 'Can I take a photo?'

公園で花の写真を撮りたい。友達に『___』と聞きます。

I set the meeting time to 3 PM. I confirm with the other person: 'Is that okay?'

ミーティングの時間を午後3時にしました。相手に『___』と確認します。

My friend carried my heavy bag. I say, 'Thank you for helping me.'

友達が重い荷物を持ってくれた。あなたは『___』と言います。

Match the core phrases

Match the extra phrases

4. Speaking Practice

Say phrases yourself (mic/recording).

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Say this phrase out loud:

___てもいいですか?

___te mo ii desu ka?

Can I ___, please?

Say this phrase out loud:

___、ありがとうございます。

___, arigatō gozaimasu.

Thanks for ___.

Say this phrase out loud:

ちょっと待ってください。

Chotto matte kudasai.

Just a moment, please.

Say this phrase out loud:

どうぞ

Dōzo.

Here you go.

Say this phrase out loud:

大丈夫です

Daijōbu desu.

Don't worry.

Say this phrase out loud:

それで大丈夫ですか?

Sore de daijōbu desu ka?

Is that okay?