Traditional Chinese - Politeness

Lesson 6 of 152

A friendly Taiwan café counter scene with Traditional Chinese phrase cards for politeness in Taiwan Mandarin, including asking permission and saying thank you.

Goal: Small words that make everyday Mandarin feel smooth and kind.

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Tiny polite phrases can do a lot of heavy lifting. In this lesson, you’ll learn how to ask nicely, hand something over, thank someone, and keep small awkward moments from becoming big ones.

Level A1: today’s phrases help you sound considerate in everyday Taiwan Mandarin. You’ll practice 請問,我可以___嗎? (Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ ___ ma?) for polite requests, 請稍等一下 (Qǐng shāoděng yíxià) for “just a moment,” and 沒關係 (Méi guānxi) for “it’s okay.” A little politeness goes a long way—Yak Yacker approved.

After this lesson you'll be able to:

  • Ask for permission politely with 請問,我可以___嗎? (Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ ___ ma?)
  • Thank someone for a specific thing using 謝謝你的___ (Xièxie nǐ de ___)
  • Ask someone to wait briefly with 請稍等一下 (Qǐng shāoděng yíxià)
  • Hand something to someone with 來,給你 (Lái, gěi nǐ)
  • Reassure someone after a small problem with 沒關係 (Méi guānxi)
  • Check if something is acceptable with 這樣可以嗎? (Zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?)
Two learners smiling and practicing polite Taiwan Mandarin in Traditional Chinese, with speech bubbles for “Can I ___, please?” and “Here you go.”

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1. Reading + Listening Practice

Hear core phrases, repeat aloud.

請問,我可以___嗎?

Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ ___ ma?

Can I ___, please?

Meaning: 請問,我可以___嗎? (Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ ___ ma?) means “Can I ___, please?” It is a polite way to ask permission for yourself.

When to use: Use it when you want to do something politely, like sit here, use a pen, or ask a question.

Tip: Don’t forget 嗎 (ma) at the end when you are asking a yes/no question.

請問,我可以坐這裡嗎?

Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ zuò zhèlǐ ma?

Can I sit here, please?
請問,我可以用你的筆嗎?

Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ yòng nǐ de bǐ ma?

Can I use your pen, please?

謝謝你的___。

Xièxie nǐ de ___.

Thanks for ___.

Meaning: 謝謝你的___ (Xièxie nǐ de ___) means “Thanks for ___.” It thanks someone for a specific thing.

When to use: Use it with a noun or thing someone gave you, like help, time, water, or a pen.

Tip: This frame works best with a noun after 的 (de), not a full sentence.

謝謝你的幫忙

Xièxie nǐ de bāngmáng.

Thanks for your help.
謝謝你的水

Xièxie nǐ de shuǐ.

Thanks for your water.

請稍等一下

Qǐng shāoděng yíxià.

Just a moment, please.

Meaning: 請稍等一下 (Qǐng shāoděng yíxià) means “Just a moment, please.”

When to use: Use it when you need someone to wait briefly, especially in service situations or when finding something.

請稍等一下,我找一下。

Qǐng shāoděng yíxià, wǒ zhǎo yíxià.

Just a moment, please. I’ll look for it.
請稍等一下,我馬上來。

Qǐng shāoděng yíxià, wǒ mǎshàng lái.

Just a moment, please. I’ll be right there.

來,給你

Lái, gěi nǐ.

Here you go.

Meaning: 來,給你 (Lái, gěi nǐ) means “Here you go.”

When to use: Use it when handing something to someone, like a drink, ticket, pen, or paper.

來,給你,這是你的票。

Lái, gěi nǐ, zhè shì nǐ de piào.

Here you go, this is your ticket.
來,給你,你的水。

Lái, gěi nǐ, nǐ de shuǐ.

Here you go, your water.

沒關係

Méi guānxi.

Don't worry.

Meaning: 沒關係 (Méi guānxi) means “Don’t worry” or “It’s okay.”

When to use: Use it after someone apologizes or makes a small mistake, like bumping into you or being late.

Tip: 關係 (guānxi) has a neutral tone on 係 (xi) in this phrase; keep it light and quick.

沒關係,沒事

Méi guānxi, méi shì.

It’s okay, no problem.
沒關係,我也剛到。

Méi guānxi, wǒ yě gāng dào.

Don’t worry, I just arrived too.

這樣可以嗎

Zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?

Is that okay?

Meaning: 這樣可以嗎? (Zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?) means “Is that okay?”

When to use: Use it when you want to check if an arrangement, action, or small change is acceptable.

我坐這裡,這樣可以嗎?

Wǒ zuò zhèlǐ, zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?

I’ll sit here—is that okay?
我明天給你,這樣可以嗎?

Wǒ míngtiān gěi nǐ, zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?

I’ll give it to you tomorrow—is that okay?

2. Conversational Listening Practice

Hear phrases in a real mini-conversation.

Anna asks David politely if she can borrow his pen.

Anna and David in a casual Taiwan classroom scene using Traditional Chinese politeness phrases in Taiwan Mandarin while sharing a pen and checking if something is okay.

What does Anna want from David?

Portrait of Anna in a Traditional Chinese lesson dialogue

Anna

David,請問,我可以用你的筆嗎?

David, qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ yòng nǐ de bǐ ma?

David, can I use your pen, please?

Portrait of David in a Traditional Chinese lesson dialogue

David

可以,請稍等一下。

Kěyǐ, qǐng shāoděng yíxià.

Sure, just a moment, please.

Portrait of David in a Traditional Chinese lesson dialogue

David

來,給你

Lái, gěi nǐ.

Here you go.

Portrait of Anna in a Traditional Chinese lesson dialogue

Anna

謝謝你的筆

Xièxie nǐ de bǐ.

Thanks for your pen.

Portrait of David in a Traditional Chinese lesson dialogue

David

沒關係

Méi guānxi.

No problem.

Portrait of Anna in a Traditional Chinese lesson dialogue

Anna

我寫這裡,這樣可以嗎?

Wǒ xiě zhèlǐ, zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?

I’ll write here—is that okay?

Portrait of David in a Traditional Chinese lesson dialogue

David

可以,沒問題

Kěyǐ, méi wèntí.

Yes, no problem.

3. Guided Practice

Quizzes and matching to lock in meaning.

Which phrase means “Can I ___, please?”

Someone apologizes for a small mistake. What can you say?

Which phrase should you use when handing something to someone?

Which phrase checks if something is acceptable?

David: Sure, just a moment, please. I’ll look for it.

David:可以,___ 我找一下。

Anna: Here you go, this is your water.

你要水嗎?Anna:___,這是你的水。

Sarah: I’ll give it to you tomorrow—is that okay?

我今天沒有帶書。Sarah:我明天給你,___

Match the core phrases

Match the extra phrases

4. Speaking Practice

Say phrases yourself (mic/recording).

Recording stays on your device only. Check speech uses your browser's speech tools when available.

Say this phrase out loud:

請問,我可以___嗎?

Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ ___ ma?

Can I ___, please?

Say this phrase out loud:

謝謝你的___。

Xièxie nǐ de ___.

Thanks for ___.

Say this phrase out loud:

請稍等一下

Qǐng shāoděng yíxià.

Just a moment, please.

Say this phrase out loud:

來,給你

Lái, gěi nǐ.

Here you go.

Say this phrase out loud:

沒關係

Méi guānxi.

Don't worry. / It's okay.

Say this phrase out loud:

這樣可以嗎

Zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?

Is that okay?