Simplified Chinese - Politeness

Lesson 6 of 156

Friendly scene showing two people in a café practicing polite Chinese phrases in Simplified Chinese about requests and thanks.

Goal: Polite requests, thanks, and small reassurances

Free Simplified Chinese lessons with guided practice, audio, and speaking support.

Welcome to Lesson 6 — quick, friendly, and useful. In this short lesson you'll hear common polite phrases and practice saying them aloud.

Level A1: In this lesson you'll learn six practical politeness phrases: how to make a polite request (请问,我可以___吗?), say thanks for something (谢谢你___。), ask someone to wait (请等一下。), hand something over (给你。), reassure someone (别担心。), and check if a plan is okay (这样可以吗?). CEFR-aligned and focused on real, everyday speech.

After this lesson you'll be able to:

  • Recognize and say polite request frames like 请问,我可以___吗? (Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ ___ ma?).
  • Use 谢谢你___。 (Xièxie nǐ ___.) to thank someone for a specific action.
  • Ask someone to wait with 请等一下。 (Qǐng děng yíxià.) and hand things over with 给你。 (Gěi nǐ.).
  • Reassure others with 别担心。 (Bié dānxīn.) and check plans with 这样可以吗? (Zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?).
  • Practice speaking each phrase aloud to build confidence (A1).
A traveler politely asking for help at a train station; the image highlights Simplified Chinese politeness phrases.

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1. Reading + Listening Practice

Hear core phrases, repeat aloud.

请问,我可以___吗?

Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ ___ ma?

Can I ___, please?

Meaning: Can I ___, please?

When to use: Use this polite question frame when you need permission to do something (the blank is usually a verb or verb phrase).

Tip: Beginners sometimes drop 请问 and sound less polite. Also use 您 instead of 你 with elders/customers if you need extra politeness.

请问,我可以坐这里吗?

Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ zuò zhèlǐ ma?

Excuse me, may I sit here?
请问,我可以用一下你的手机吗?

Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ yòng yíxià nǐ de shǒujī ma?

Excuse me, can I use your phone for a moment?

谢谢你___

Xièxie nǐ ___.

Thanks for ___.

Meaning: Thanks for ___.

When to use: Use when you want to thank someone for an action (put a verb phrase in the blank). For a noun, say 谢谢你的 + noun.

Tip: A common error is adding 的 before a verb (e.g., 谢谢你的帮忙) — use 谢谢你的 + noun; use 谢谢你 + verb phrase.

谢谢你帮我拿书。

Xièxie nǐ bāng wǒ ná shū.

Thanks for helping me take the book.
谢谢你来

Xièxie nǐ lái!

Thanks for coming!

请等一下

Qǐng děng yíxià.

Just a moment, please.

Meaning: Just a moment, please.

When to use: Say this when you need someone to wait a short time (phones, counters, asking others).

请等一下,我马上回来。

Qǐng děng yíxià, wǒ mǎshàng huílái.

Please wait a moment, I'll be right back.
请等一下,我查一下资料。

Qǐng děng yíxià, wǒ chá yíxià zīliào.

Please wait a moment, I'll check the information.

给你

Gěi nǐ.

Here you go.

Meaning: Here you go.

When to use: Use this when handing something to someone (cashier giving change, giving a pen, handing a ticket).

Tip: When speaking to elders or customers, use 给您 (gěi nín) to be more polite.

给你,这是你的票。

Gěi nǐ, zhè shì nǐ de piào.

Here you go, this is your ticket.
给你,别把咖啡撒了。

Gěi nǐ, bié bǎ kāfēi sǎ le.

Here you go — be careful not to spill the coffee.

别担心

Bié dānxīn.

Don't worry.

Meaning: Don't worry.

When to use: Say this to reassure someone after a small mistake or when they are nervous.

别担心,我会帮你。

Bié dānxīn, wǒ huì bāng nǐ.

Don't worry, I'll help you.
别担心,这不严重。

Bié dānxīn, zhè bù yánzhòng.

Don't worry, this isn't serious.

这样可以吗

Zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?

Is that okay?

Meaning: Is that okay?

When to use: Use this to check if a plan, arrangement, or suggestion is acceptable.

我把时间改到明天,这样可以吗?

Wǒ bǎ shíjiān gǎi dào míngtiān, zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?

I moved the time to tomorrow — is that okay?
我先付一半,这样可以吗?

Wǒ xiān fù yí bàn, zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?

I'll pay half first — is that okay?

2. Conversational Listening Practice

Hear phrases in a real mini-conversation.

Borrowing a pen

Two people exchanging a pen and saying 请等一下, 给你, and 谢谢你 in a short conversation in Simplified Chinese.

What does Anna ask to borrow?

Portrait of Anna in a Simplified Chinese lesson dialogue

Anna

请问,我可以借你的笔吗?

Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ jiè nǐ de bǐ ma?

Excuse me, can I borrow your pen?

Portrait of David in a Simplified Chinese lesson dialogue

David

请等一下,我找一下。

Qǐng děng yíxià, wǒ zhǎo yíxià.

Please wait a moment, I'll look for it.

Portrait of David in a Simplified Chinese lesson dialogue

David

给你

Gěi nǐ.

Here you go.

Portrait of Anna in a Simplified Chinese lesson dialogue

Anna

谢谢你帮我

Xièxie nǐ bāng wǒ.

Thanks for helping me.

Portrait of David in a Simplified Chinese lesson dialogue

David

别担心

Bié dānxīn.

Don't worry.

3. Guided Practice

Quizzes and matching to lock in meaning.

Which phrase means 'Just a moment, please.'?

If you hand someone their coffee, which is the best thing to say?

Which phrase asks 'Is that okay?'

How would you say 'Thanks for helping me.'?

Excuse me, may I sit here?

在车站你看到空座位,你想坐:请问,我可以 ___ 吗?

Here you go, this is your ticket.

服务员把票递给你,说:___,这是您的车票。

I moved the meeting to next Tuesday — is that okay?

你想把会议改到下周二,你问同事:我把会议改到下周二,___?

Match the core phrases

Match the extra phrases

4. Speaking Practice

Say phrases yourself (mic/recording).

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Say this phrase out loud:

请问,我可以___吗?

Qǐngwèn, wǒ kěyǐ ___ ma?

Can I ___, please?

Say this phrase out loud:

谢谢你___

Xièxie nǐ ___.

Thanks for ___.

Say this phrase out loud:

请等一下

Qǐng děng yíxià.

Just a moment, please.

Say this phrase out loud:

给你

Gěi nǐ.

Here you go.

Say this phrase out loud:

别担心

Bié dānxīn.

Don't worry.

Say this phrase out loud:

这样可以吗

Zhèyàng kěyǐ ma?

Is that okay?