Spanish - Politeness

Lesson 5 of 159

A learner practices polite Spanish phrases like 'Gracias' and 'Por favor' with a smile.

Goal: Simple polite phrases for everyday interactions

Free Spanish lessons with guided practice, audio, and speaking support.

Welcome! This short lesson helps you use basic polite phrases in Spanish so you can ask, thank, and apologize with confidence. Have fun—politeness opens doors!

Level A1: In this lesson you will practice common polite phrases: requests with “por favor,” thanking and replying, brief apologies and attention-getters, and simple ways to accept or refuse. These CEFR-aligned phrases are useful right away in shops, travel, and daily conversations.

After this lesson you'll be able to:

  • Practice making polite requests with “por favor” and polite questions (A1).
  • Learn how to say thanks and respond: “Gracias” / “De nada.”
  • Use short apologies and attention phrases: “Disculpa,” “Perdón,” and reassuring replies like “No pasa nada.”
A friendly shop scene showing polite phrases for asking and thanking in Spanish.

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1. Reading + Listening Practice

Hear core phrases, repeat aloud.

___, por favor.

Please, ___ .

Meaning: Please, ___.

When to use: Use this frame to make a short polite request. Put the verb or phrase in the blank (for example: “Cierra la puerta, por favor.”).

Tip: Don’t put “por favor” before every single word; it most naturally comes after the request.

Cierra la puerta, por favor.
Please close the door.
Dame el menú, por favor.
Please give me the menu.

Gracias.

Thank you.

Meaning: Thank you.

When to use: Say this to show gratitude after someone helps you, gives you something, or shares information.

Gracias por la ayuda.
Thanks for the help.
¡Gracias! Estuvo delicioso.
Thank you! It was delicious.

De nada

You're welcome.

Meaning: You're welcome.

When to use: Reply to someone who says “Gracias.” It’s a polite, neutral response.

—Gracias por todo. —De nada.
—Thanks for everything. —You're welcome.
De nada, fue un placer ayudar.
You're welcome, it was a pleasure to help.

Disculpa.

Excuse me.

Meaning: Excuse me.

When to use: Use to get someone’s attention or to interrupt politely in informal/tú situations. For formal address say “Disculpe.”

Tip: Beginner learners sometimes use “Disculpa” in very formal situations; switch to “Disculpe” when speaking to someone you should address formally.

Disculpa, ¿sabes la hora?
Excuse me, do you know the time?
Disculpa, una pregunta rápida.
Excuse me, a quick question.

Perdón

Sorry.

Meaning: Sorry.

When to use: A short apology after a small mistake, bumping someone, or when you need to excuse yourself.

Perdón, no te vi.
Sorry, I didn't see you.
Perdón por llegar tarde.
Sorry for arriving late.

¿Podrías ___, por favor?

Could you ___, please?

Meaning: Could you ___, please?

When to use: Use this polite question to ask someone to do something for you in informal tú form. For formal use, say “¿Podría ___, por favor?”

Tip: Don’t mix forms: beginners sometimes use “podrías” with very formal contexts; use “podría” to be consistently formal.

¿Podrías ayudarme con la maleta, por favor?
Could you help me with the suitcase, please?
¿Podrías abrir la ventana, por favor?
Could you open the window, please?

¿Puedes repetirlo, por favor?

Can you say that again, please?

Meaning: Can you say that again, please?

When to use: Ask this when you didn’t hear or understand something and want the speaker to repeat it politely.

¿Puedes repetirlo, por favor? No entendí.
Can you say that again, please? I didn't understand.
Perdón, ¿puedes repetirlo, por favor?
Sorry, can you repeat that, please?

Ayúdame, por favor.

Please help me.

Meaning: Please help me.

When to use: Use this short imperative to ask someone for help in informal situations. For formal, say “Ayúdeme, por favor.”

Ayúdame, por favor. No encuentro mi pasaporte.
Please help me. I can't find my passport.
Ayúdame, por favor, con las direcciones.
Please help me with the directions.

Lo siento, no puedo.

Sorry, I can't.

Meaning: Sorry, I can't.

When to use: Use this to soften a refusal or to explain you are unable to do something in a polite way.

Lo siento, no puedo. Tengo otra reunión.
Sorry, I can't. I have another meeting.
Lo siento, no puedo ayudarte hoy.
Sorry, I can't help you today.

Qué amable de tu parte.

That's very kind of you.

Meaning: That's very kind of you.

When to use: Say this to acknowledge someone’s helpful or generous action in an informal tú form. For formal use, say “Qué amable de su parte.”

Qué amable de tu parte traer comida, gracias.
That's very kind of you to bring food, thanks.
Qué amable de tu parte ayudarme con esto.
That's very kind of you to help me with this.

No pasa nada.

It's okay.

Meaning: It’s okay.

When to use: Use to reassure someone after a small problem or mistake. It calms the situation and shows nothing serious happened.

—Perdón por el error. —No pasa nada.
—Sorry about the mistake. —It's okay.
No pasa nada, no te preocupes.
It's okay, don't worry.

Adelante.

Go ahead.

Meaning: Go ahead.

When to use: Use this to give permission or to tell someone they may proceed, often in situations like entering or starting.

¿Puedo pasar? —Adelante.
Can I come in? —Go ahead.
Adelante, toma asiento.
Go ahead, take a seat.

Pasa tú primero.

After you.

Meaning: After you.

When to use: Say this when you want someone else to go first, for entrances or narrow passages. Informal form uses tú; formal is “Pase usted primero.”

Pasa tú primero, yo te sigo.
After you, I'll follow.
No, pasa tú primero por favor.
No, after you first please.

2. Conversational Listening Practice

Hear phrases in a real mini-conversation.

At a small café

Two people in a cafe using short polite Spanish phrases to interact.

What does Anna ask David to do?

Portrait of Anna in a Spanish lesson dialogue

Anna

Disculpa, ¿puedes repetirlo, por favor?

Excuse me, can you say that again, please?

Portrait of David in a Spanish lesson dialogue

David

Sí. Adelante — te doy la recomendación otra vez.

Yes. Go ahead — I'll give the recommendation again.

Portrait of Anna in a Spanish lesson dialogue

Anna

Gracias. ¿Podrías decirme qué plato es el más popular?

Thanks. Could you tell me which dish is most popular?

Portrait of David in a Spanish lesson dialogue

David

Qué amable de tu parte preguntar. Pasa tú primero con la elección.

That's very kind of you to ask. After you with the choice.

Portrait of Anna in a Spanish lesson dialogue

Anna

Lo siento, no puedo decidir. Ayúdame, por favor.

Sorry, I can't decide. Please help me.

Portrait of David in a Spanish lesson dialogue

David

No pasa nada. De nada, feliz de ayudar.

It's okay. You're welcome, happy to help.

3. Guided Practice

Quizzes and matching to lock in meaning.

Which Spanish phrase means 'You're welcome'?

You didn't hear what someone said. Which phrase asks them to repeat it?

How do you politely ask for help (informal) in Spanish?

Which phrase would you use to reassure someone after a small mistake?

Ana dropped her cup. — It's okay.

Ana dejó caer su taza. —___.

You're at the door, I say: After you.

Estás en la puerta, yo digo: ___.

I didn't understand what the teacher said. — Can you say that again, please?

No entendí lo que dijo el profesor. —___.

Match the core phrases

Match the extra phrases

4. Speaking Practice

Say phrases yourself (mic/recording).

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Say this phrase out loud:

___, por favor.

Please, ___.

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Gracias.

Thank you.

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De nada

You're welcome.

Say this phrase out loud:

Disculpa.

Excuse me.

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Perdón

Sorry.

Say this phrase out loud:

¿Podrías ___, por favor?

Could you ___, please?

Say this phrase out loud:

¿Puedes repetirlo, por favor?

Can you say that again, please?

Say this phrase out loud:

Ayúdame, por favor.

Please help me.

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Lo siento, no puedo.

Sorry, I can't.

Say this phrase out loud:

Qué amable de tu parte.

That's very kind of you.

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No pasa nada.

It's okay.

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Adelante.

Go ahead.

Say this phrase out loud:

Pasa tú primero.

After you.